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Many people wonder, "How we got into this mess?" The responses of several people turn around to blame the government, Wall Street, the financial institutions, lenders, brokers and, of course, buyers and investors.
I would like to explore an element of the equation: the psychology of financial problems. One can argue that the primary emotion behind the disaster was greed, followed by instant gratification and fear. In other words, some people got caught up in the emotion that drives the idea that "you have to buy now turn around and resell at a profit, while can and before it is too late. "
I found that almost all our dysfunction and pain in life is derived from the off balance and being trapped in a time zone: past, present or future. For example, a woman who refuses to love again because she still loves someone of the fears of the past or be hurt again, the man who gets so caught up in this moment of temptation that steals or cheats on his wife and the man who hoards and refuses to spend money because fears that there will be sufficient in the future.
We all do and will make mistakes – some of which not only hurt ourselves, but around us. The key is to learn from those mistakes.
When we take an honest look into our hearts, we discover what we took the actions we take. On balance being responsible. I remember the last eighteen months, in an argument with a friend who told me he was going to buy your home in third as first-time homebuyer – and she had no intention of living in any of them. It was obviously a lie and fraud. When I asked her, and said openly I was wrong, she replied that the lender told her that "everybody does it". But the fact that everyone is breaking the law or act of greed does not justify a wrong action. She did not listen and I guess he is paying the price. One could argue that, to some extent she was a victim of greed added and the lies of others who support and promote their actions, said, "If I knew how easy it is to buy homes, would have done years ago."
But greed, instant gratification and selfishness never even limited to finance.
This past week, issued a press release in response to a new book, "The Truth about Cheating, Gary Neuman, who says that the top reason men cheat is because they feel undervalued by his wife. As a clinical hypnotherapist, I think this is an outrage that once again men are trying to let off the hook by blaming women, trying to make women feel guilty about not doing enough for her man.
Marriage counselor and author Gary Neuman says that women are to blame when men cheat. He says no. 1 reason men cheat is "to feel appreciated – the lack of thoughtful gestures" for women. He says that cheaters are not bad, rotten kids, "also can be good guys who are lost and do evil." Like the lady who tried to eliminate personal responsibility by saying that "everybody does it", here is another person, Gary Neuman, that removes the responsibility for the infidelity of the man who cheated and places it right in her lap, saying it is the responsibility of women to build the man and he feels valued by Neuman says that is what men seek and expect of women.
The dictionary defines "responsible" as: 1. Person or persons responsible, as something within their power, control or management; 2. From being the author, cause or reason for something. I believe that the responsibility as the creator or cause of something. In an interview last week, ABC's "20/20" with Barbara Walters, Peter Cook, the former husband of supermodel Christie Brinkley, Brinkley blamed for their relationship: "I wanted a little acknowledgment, a little attention, a little appreciation now and then for my efforts, for the amount of time it took to care for her and my family, for the wealth I was building. "
The key point here is to understand that no matter how someone leaves or "does" feel, the way you respond to that feeling is your choice. Peter Cook refused to accept that he was the creator of the results of its own shares. Peter Cook had been able to communicate with his wife instead of sleeping with other women, particularly a girl of eighteen years of age. In his book, Gary Neuman, even cites a case in which the husband had had regular sexual relations and emotional connection with your wife, but still had an adventure. The bottom line is we all have choices in every moment and the real man has power over himself – exercising self-restraint, discipline and knows how to say "no" or avoid the temptation. The real man does not expect a woman or anyone else to validate it, that it validates same. The real man does not blame others for their actions.
Ultimately, all must take responsibility to look at our own situations and determine how we create our result and results through our decisions and actions so that we can make better decisions in the future.
I wish him well and remind you "Believe in yourself-You deserve the best!"
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